J KRISHNAMURTI dealt with this question at length . you could find the answer in googleThis is a psychological problem and has little to do with spirituality Even Durvasha rishi and Lord krishna got annoyed. Refer to Mahabaharata and Ramayana. Self control does not help since it is one part of the mind which becomes controller and other part which is controlled and thus there is a conflict leading to further trouble. The solution lies in having true understanding and awareness. If we become aware that we are angry and understand that anger leads to no good.; the anger will subside. Simran also helps as it diverts the mind and thought process.
BRIJ SACHDEVA
From: SAMIR1 ROKADIA <samir.rokadia@gmail.com>
To: mandhirbajaj@gmail.com
Cc: Tarun K <tarun_k33@yahoo.com>; divine_souls@googlegroups.com
Sent: Fri, April 23, 2010 11:16:07 AM
Subject: Re: [Divine Souls:4686] Question.
Dhan Nirankarji
Saints Das does agree that there can be several techniques which can be put in actual practice to control anger, why anger such techniques can be used to control almost all bad / unwanted characteristics of the human mind such as Kaam, Krodh, Lobh, Moh and Ego.
The most important thing is to do self introspection and find out the root cause of such problems. According to Das the root cause is that we are not able to implement the first oath completely in our daily life
Saints please read the last paragraph which Babaji has said in his article freedom of Karma which is attached.
If we learn to live our daily life in the above manner automatically we will be able to overcome all these bad / unwanted traits as mentioned above.
Saints we have been living in this materialistic world and many times we get detached from this Nirankar and on such occasion we have thoughts based on these unwanted characteristics, whenever we are attached to Nirankar we will never have such thoughts.
To remain attached to Nirankar Das has been practicing one technique, Das has made Babaji his ideal and Das has made up a mind to eventually live the life in the manner which Babaji is living
So every time das has any thought I ask a simple question
"what would have babaji done if he had the same thought?"
Saints, automatically das gets the answer
Das has been practicing this technique since last 1 year and over a period of time it becomes a matter of routine,ek sahag avastha ban jati hain
Saints Das still has lot to learn and is continuously learning from all the interactions which we all are having on this google group please forgive das if any thing mentioned above has hurt the feelings of any of you
Dhan Nirankarji
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Sent: Fri, April 23, 2010 11:16:07 AM
Subject: Re: [Divine Souls:4686] Question.
Tu Hi Nirankar Main Tere Sharan Ha Mainu Baksh Lo
Dhan Nirankarji
Saints Das does agree that there can be several techniques which can be put in actual practice to control anger, why anger such techniques can be used to control almost all bad / unwanted characteristics of the human mind such as Kaam, Krodh, Lobh, Moh and Ego.
The most important thing is to do self introspection and find out the root cause of such problems. According to Das the root cause is that we are not able to implement the first oath completely in our daily life
Saints please read the last paragraph which Babaji has said in his article freedom of Karma which is attached.
If we learn to live our daily life in the above manner automatically we will be able to overcome all these bad / unwanted traits as mentioned above.
Saints we have been living in this materialistic world and many times we get detached from this Nirankar and on such occasion we have thoughts based on these unwanted characteristics, whenever we are attached to Nirankar we will never have such thoughts.
To remain attached to Nirankar Das has been practicing one technique, Das has made Babaji his ideal and Das has made up a mind to eventually live the life in the manner which Babaji is living
So every time das has any thought I ask a simple question
"what would have babaji done if he had the same thought?"
Saints, automatically das gets the answer
Das has been practicing this technique since last 1 year and over a period of time it becomes a matter of routine,ek sahag avastha ban jati hain
Saints Das still has lot to learn and is continuously learning from all the interactions which we all are having on this google group please forgive das if any thing mentioned above has hurt the feelings of any of you
Dhan Nirankarji
On Thu, Apr 22, 2010 at 6:01 AM, <mandhirbajaj@gmail.com> wrote:
Dhan Nirankar Ji!It is funny how you type the last 4 words in capital letters!It makes it seem that you are getting angry asking the question!:-) hahaIn an conversation with a learned Saint, I asked the same question that you have asked.This is the conversation:Saint: there is no special way to keep it (anger) away except practicing calmnessthats why it is said, "swas swas simro gobind", meaning we need to keep reminding ourselves that He is there.Once you know Nirankar is present, Satguru is right there, your anger will go away in a second.Imagine you are about to get angry with someone, for something...me: yea.Saint: that moment you hear that Babaji is coming there... you'll forget everything and look for Himme: tu hi nirankartrueSaint: Meaning the moment the anger starts to overpower you, just give ur brain one simple thoughtthat "what if Babaji was present there... Would I behave in the same way in front of Him?"the answer will be NOSaint: those 2-3 seconds will change everythin and the calmness will seep inagain, this is easier said than done....but can be achieved through practice..walking away is also a good practice...if you think you are loosing it....walk away...Saint: You can explain the reason of walking away but words said in anger can have lasting effectDnk, Love,--On 21 April 2010 23:13, Tarun K <tarun_k33@yahoo.com> wrote:
Dhan nirankar ji,
If ur weakness is shot temper?
Than how to controll ur anger?
As, when anger enters in mind all other things slip out, only anger remain the whole day?
Then HOW TO CONTROLL ANGER?
Das Tarun,
Ek tuhi nirankar.
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