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Wednesday, April 7, 2010

Re: [Divine Souls:4624] The Phases of Mistakes

Tu Hi Nirankar Main Tere Sharan Ha Mainu Baksh Lo

Dear Ms Brahama Singhji

Das ka aap ke charno main Dhan Nirankarji

First I think you should never be ashamed and afraid of sending any mails whether short or lengthy and also never be afraid of mentioning any thing which you may think is silly because according to me Babaji is managing this forum of divine souls with an aim and intention to develop an open hearted discussion among all we forum members so that all are able to learn even small things so please never be afraid and ashamed

Secondly you are 100% right that as far as possible we should never allow our mind to cross the 1st phase. Please remember that root cause of any action (any karma) which we all do is our mind (our maan), any action we do first arises in our mind as a thought and then our mind decides to convert the thought in to action.

So the correct way is tune our mind to analyze / differentiate any thought which is arising our mind, we should tune our mind to ask one simple question to our own self  " Is this thought correct based on principles of this great divine knowledge?"  (to get an answer we and our mind should have a correct interpretation of this great divine knowledge which none of us have because we are not 100% PERFECT and we are not 100% educated because we are still students) so we should adopt one more simple technique we should train our mind to ask a question "What would have Babaji done if he had same thought ?" and then automatically our mind itself or our soul itself will give the right answer

Once we have a right answer then next would be to tune our mind to forget the said thought and stop it being converte/ d in to action and a simple way to do this is to actually feel presence of Babaji see / visualize him with this divine eyes and do simran, believe me the strength in simran is so great that it really give a + energy to our mind to do away with converting such thought in to action

By practicing these simple techniques regularly it will become a routine (sahaj awastha ban jaati hai) and gradually one's soul is able to control one's mind

and one when one achieves such a stage then one should consider that he / she is able to fulfill the 1st oath given to Babaji at the time of taking this great divine knowledge

Das also learnt so many small small things from your thoughts so please go on sending them with an open heart

Dhan Nirankarji
  

On Tue, Apr 6, 2010 at 12:05 AM, Brahama Singh <happychild28@hotmail.com> wrote:
Dhan Nirankar Ji,

 

Dearest saints, recently some thoughts where going through dasi's mind and I wish to share them with you. 

 

Whenever we make a mistake there are two phases that we go through.  First there is the phase where our mind and soul is telling us that no, we should not make this mistake it is wrong.  In that phase we have stopped our-selves.  However in the second phase we find ourselves making that mistake and then repenting.  Saints, while thinking of this dasi realized that there is a turning point between both phases where maya or the wrong thoughts we have win and the voice of the soul is ignored.  We do not even realize when we crossed that turning point and commit the mistake.  If we continously remember this Nirankar and the teachings of satguru, we stay in the first phase and do not cross that turning point.

 

Let us consider, why do we even make those mistakes in the first place? We go to sangat, we have been taught by Satguru what is correct and what is not.  We know the rules of life, yet still we make mistakes.  After thinking for sometime, what dasi thought is that the reason we make mistakes is that we are afraid of society.  We don't want anyone to raise questions about us, we want to please everyone, we want to be the "coolest".  Today's society is very much biased and has forgotten the true teachings of Satguru.  Society reads scriptures and holy books, but only for reading, hardly anyone ever applys the thoughts and knowledge in those books.  Satguru has taught us that we are all one, all are from this super-soul. Yet we forget all that and make our mistakes while living in society.  In Bhagwat Geeta, Shri Krishna Maharaj Ji says that you live in this world, not that the world lives in you.  In other words, we live in this society we can control our actions and by doing so eventually bring change to society.  However if we let society control us, then we are not doing any good and are simply increasing the negativity. 

 

Saints this same society which influences us so much also observes us.  Whenever we commit the mistakes society wonders that they attend Nirankari satsangs, they say they have divine knowledge, so what did they learn from there? They are just like us.  So saints, the best prachaar of this mission is to first bring change into ourselves.  A question raised upon Baba Ji's gurusikh is a question raised on Baba Ji.  Baba Ji does so much for us, isn't it time we do something for Him? 

 

In Bhagwat Geeta, Shri Krishna Maharaj Ji says that our 'maan' is greater (shresht) than senses, our mind is greater than our 'maan' and our soul (atma) is greater than our mind.  In other words, the soul is the highest and gives us the clearest concious and always provides us with correct guidance.  Our soul knows what is true and what is not and what it needs.

 

Saints now if we think, that who's voice is loudest when we go through life, who do we hear more? In actuality it goes in reverse order, we can barely hear what our soul is telling us and loudly hear what our senses and 'maan' wants us to do.  We hear our 'maan' and do what we please, but rarely do we hear the soft words of our soul telling us what is correct.  That is why sometimes those who do not take this divine knowledge and run from it are not hearing the "soft shouts" of the soul.

 

This change we have to bring in ourselves should start from our own home.  It is as simple as giving respect to each other.  Dasi is reminded of the story that poojya Daar ji had told about Baba Gurbachan Singh Ji Maharaj that how Baba ji would put "ji" after everything.  "Please give me that paper ji," or "chai ka cup ji".  Baba ji told that this "ji"is to teach us to give respect to all.  Saints  when we say "Satguru Baba Hardev Singh Ji Maharaj ki Jai" we forget to put the "ji" after Baba Ji's name.  Even once dasi heard that questions were raised that is it correct or not to put the "ji" after Baba Ji's name.  Saints, when we cannot respect our Satguru how will we respect others? We forget that Baba ji's saints are same to Baba ji and lose the respect.  Whenever we have a problem we stand in the namaskar line for hours and ask Baba ji Himself and tell him of our troubles.  Imagine if we had to call Baba ji and ask him, that "Baba ji should we put the "ji" after your name or not?".  We must change ourselves, in our homes we do not even call our children or other family members with that respect, so we should start there. 
 
Dear saints all that dasi has written here is not pointing to anyone but rather dasi is simply describing her own mistakes.  I realize I do these mistakes day to day and seek your blessings that I may change.  Dasi humbly apologizes at your lotus feet if anything that I have written is wrong or has hurt anyone in anyway.  Dasi also apologizes for the lengthly email, however, these are just a few thoughts that were going through dasi's mind in the past few days.  Dasi wished to share them with you all and seek your blessings.

 

Humble and sadar pranam in your holy feet,

Dasi Brahama

 


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