DNJ Beloved Saints,
If ur weakness is shot temper?
Than how to controll ur anger?
As, when anger enters in mind all other things slip out, only anger remain the whole day?
Then HOW TO CONTROLL ANGER?
Than how to controll ur anger?
As, when anger enters in mind all other things slip out, only anger remain the whole day?
Then HOW TO CONTROLL ANGER?
I would like to share my personal experience what has worked for me with Guru's Grace to control anger. I have been pretty short tempered, angry boy while growing up due to our own millions reasons, ignorance, lack of care/concerns, consideration,value or etc,etc, from family, relatives, neighbors,friends,etc. we all experience/feel l in our life time. Me being born as curious i would have to ask questions and would have to known the logic or practical/scientific reason to make a sense out of it so that i can understand/register that in my mind or heart to live with it without question it ever again my life. Answer had to make sense otherwise i wouldn't have accepted. example like why do we all say we all are GOD's kid none of us is better or worsen we are his creation. when we are labeling them with caste,creed,colors,etc,etc?? when somebody is dying why don't we look for religious blood than just matching a blood group without carrying who is the donor when we care so much marrying outcast?? why there are so many different roles for different set of people and different for others?? why aren't we behaving how we suppose to behave as we are taught either we just behave like the way we taught or either we should stop talking about?? so many illusions upon illusions never call a monkey a monkey first thing in the morning before sun rise? if cat cuts your path don't go where you are going just come back or things are going to be wrecked up what are you going to work for?? None of them seems to make sense to me and if i ask around to elders or anyone i would come across they wouldn't been able to answer me which would satisfy me just same typical answer this is how we have been taught and we never questioned but look at the generation today they question everything.. i come to realize being misunderstand is one of the biggest challenge of life.. and imagine facing that everyday or life.. that have driven me crazy,wild and so angry.. why can't just someone answer or say sorry i would find out or i don't know?..
There are some incidents in our lives which sets us apart in our life and set us for life.. which are literally liberating. one of my life changing incident i can't ever forget which had enable me overcome short temper or anger.. .. my aunt once had said to me is this what your Guru teaches?? Is this what you learn in Satsang?? which you are so proud off or speak so high about?? i am quite sure none of us would want to hear those words from anybody. those words had hit home run with me.. i was speechless, been quite for few days ponder upon those words.. and kept praying to Nirankar and saying to my self i am not ever going to do anything to make my Satguru/Mission look bad because of my actions... My Guru shouldn't carry my mistakes/ignorance or lack of consideration towards other fellow beings. i should take complete responsibility and own up to my mistakes and do something about it.... i have started seeing things from different angels from that day on... all other circumstances were the way they were they didn't change buy reaction towards got changed... most of the frustrating things which would have driven me crazy i would just laugh about them and walk away without being influenced by them.. i would reming my self that first pledge which is a very key to Nirvana, which lets you experience parmanand... if this body,mind belongs to nirankar who am i to use in inappropriate manners? if i have given it him it should make any difference to me or if does bothers me i need to reconsider first pledge... you really expedience Anand/peace generated by Gyan by applying or living it. i have been introvert, analyzed and monitored my self since... Believe me i can really say this with All Guru's grace and guidance everyday was blissful and happy with growth and as it's now with mere BabaJi's blessings... Anger takes pretty much everything (interior/exterior) away would we want it to take everything away which we have just gotten with mere Guru's Kirpa??? i believe its just a matter of understanding Guru's role in life and understanding what he has given and how valuable it's.. and constantly practicing it life/bliss/happiness/joy/peace/love/care/harmony/humanity,etc,etc,etc, it's ALL happening...other hand it's always about Gurmukh and Manmukh or good or bad or angel or devil who wins at the end whoever we feed the most.. when we feed Gurmukh the most Manmukh after a while gets anemic and losses its existence and slowly gets into comma... it just happens to Devotees? these are just parameters to gauge where we stand in devotion.. (not to pass or fail just to grow more)
If something doesn't fit right with somebody please i humbly seek your forgiveness.. please accept..
there are so many way but this was my way of dealing with it... which had helped me gotten a pretty good grip on vices with Guru's Grace.
Dust of your holy feet.
TJBamrah
SC, California.
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